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Like most self-respecting (albeit then-closeted) queer girl, I found myself aware of „the true L keyword,“ Ilene Chaiken’s 2010-12 spin-off from the demonstrate that identified a generation folks in one method or other. At that time the program broadcast, I becamen’t curious. It had nothing at all to do with my assertion of my bisexual identity and everything to do with the fact that I became nevertheless pissed at Chaiken for undertaking

my personal lady Jenny Schecter

thus extremely, extremely wrong into the season finale in the initial „The L Word.“

Quickly ahead a decade once the gay movie stars aimed personally and I also found my self bingeing all three conditions in a single few days. A lot of aspects added to this involuntary choice. One: I happened to be in the house stretching of edits for my second queer YA book call at 2021 and I also seriously needed mind sweets. Two: Showtime hit upwards my inbox with a 30-day free trial offer, evidently for your year of „Billions,“ a show We have never ever observed. Three: Really, I Happened To Be interested.

Back in the day, I found myself a dedicated enthusiast of „The Hills,“ MTV’s utterly absurd, utterly addicting real life drama about fairly, hetero 20-somethings living in LA. „the true L term“ held exactly the same sun-drenched, sweet feeling of escapism — only way, way,


gayer — plus with more puppies and, beginning in period two, a tremendously lovable kitty. Positive, absolutely mess: fake drama that’s demonstrably staged by producers, many genuine shouting in very packed organizations, and really, Romi. Nevertheless, „the actual L keyword“ had most good stuff that held me watching till the actual end of Whitney and Sara’s huge homosexual wedding ceremony, straight away Googling exactly what everybody’s doing nowadays, and following my personal faves on Insta (

hi, Kacy!

) — and dorkily moving around my apartment to

that appealing motif track

. Here is what we all of a sudden adored:

Solid Coupling

Jill and Nikki tend to be adorable as they squabble over a chandelier and preparing a wedding that has beenn’t appropriate at that time but was actually important for them on a personal degree. Kacy and Cori hold on to the thought of an infant whom might or might not appear, while never ever wavering inside their love and assistance for example another. Tracy and Stamie learn how to stabilize work, gender, together with proper care of three adorable children — certainly one of whom had special needs. We thoroughly appreciated the storylines of the three lovers navigating lesbian life in a straight world with each other. (and that I was solidly group Jill in Chandelier-Gate. That thing was unsafe!)

Cute Crushing

At the start of period three, I happened to ben’t sure the way I thought about Kiyomi, the Hunter Valentine frontwoman whose means of practicing polyamory wasn’t exactly fair to her lover, Allie. When Kiyomi found enviably pink-haired and pearly white-teethed Angeleno Lauren at Dinah Shore, but all bets were off. Once they kissed on garden, it had been precious. Once they shyly gazed at one another and giggled during confessional interviews, it absolutely was cuter. And when Lauren could not stay away from Kiyomi’s house of brand new York City for 1 a lot more moment? Cutest.

Minutes With Mothers

Appear, we are in
and that I miss my
. This may describe precisely why it rained-on my face anytime a loving mama figure showed up. Whether it had been Jill screaming gladly when the woman mom made a surprise trip to help the girl pick a wedding gown, Kacy’s mama fulfilling her child for lunch and consoling the woman about baby Charlie, or Whitney’s grandmother witnessing Whitney’s garden Connecticut event, I happened to be chaos, y’all. Why don’t we remember Francine coming out to the woman ultra-glam mother Yoko, exactly who immediately responded „I like love so much you,“ and Sadjah’s mummy Sarita praising Sadjah’s Vote for Equality peers for residing their own reality.

I simply believe it’s beautiful individually all to face right up for your rights and fight for what you really, truly rely on,“ she states.

Real, Alive Bisexuality!

Perform i enjoy how Chaiken manages bisexual figures and storylines? Not at all times. But as a bi myself, i will be hungry regarding as well as representation of my personal people in the mass media (Spoiler: however maybe not many!). Today, I’ll just take the thing I will get, and I found it heartening observe Romi with boyfriends for the show’s 3rd period, and the ensuing discussions of exactly how bi/queer/pansexual women often believe omitted from the homosexual society all together. It’s uncommon I found Romi relatable, but We relished this topic that is stilln’t discussed enough.

Claire. Enough said.

Oh, Claire. She left the woman definitely gorgeous sweetheart Vivian in ny to „start a lesbian website“ in Los Angeles — and shack with ex Francine (guess how well that last one moved). She blithely turned down an internship with „But i am a Cheerleader“ movie director and queer icon Jamie Babbit. And she would drunkenly scream in clubs. Claire was actually the undeniable


This season two major player was since sloppy as her ‘80s rock star-esque golden-haired shag, in fact it is


what you want the truth is television. Aren’t getting me wrong, I found myself a fan of the quieter minutes in „The Real L Word,“ but Claire brought the pure dramz, and that I was actually here because of it. (Also, we grew up not far from the woman home town of St. Louis, so hell yeah for fellow weirdo Midwesterners!)

Here Is The Manner In Which We Live

Bringing it to „The L Word“ motif song we all enjoyed: There still aren’t countless shows, films, etc. about queer women


(speaking, laughing, loving, inhaling, etc.). Even when I happened to be frustrated with Whitney’s pre-engagement user methods, Sajdah and Chanel getting also really serious too quickly and hearing the millionth variation of „just what’s up with both you and so-and-so,“ I relished spending time with queer ladies in different stages of these physical lives, only figuring things aside. I can’t say We skip the days whenever unscripted shows dominated the airwaves, but „the actual L keyword“ was actually well worth watching, not simply for club-screaming, chandelier-squabbling and broken keyboard-pouting (bad Somer), but also for the major lady-loving lesbian energy.

Incentive: not one person dies in a swimming pool.